Now, move your hips and butt in a single steady circular motion, continuing to maneuver back and forth while transferring your legs up and down just a bit while maintaining your knees bent. But you may also preserve a distance away from the man. Spend a minute dancing in entrance of him, transferring to the beat, after which slowly start to turn so he can begin dancing behind you and you may formally start to grind. To make things hotter, put more stress in your partner while grinding. Feel free to grind with whoever you choose, man or lady.

This post originally appeared on Unwritten. For those of you that aren't aware, "grinding" is that dance that college kids like to do in their free time, in which it more or less looks like two people are dry-humping each other. This also is something referred to as,"freakdancing," which is pretty accurate if you've ever seen a crowded dance floor at a bar -- it literally just looks like a sea of mentally disturbed orangutans attempting to mate. And of course, nowadays, grinding is so mainstream that we usually just refer to it as "dancing," which is sad.

She's massaging your package just right and she's got that perfect ass and you slowly get hard and your dick slowly nudges between her ass cheeks awkwardly. Do you go to the bathroom to gather yourself or do you just keep going and don't give a damn you are rock hard? I'm not easily excitable and this rarely happens but this black girl made it move and I went straight for the bathroom. I've always wanted to ask women what they were trying to accomplish. Do you want to get us hard or do you want to see us keep it together?